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- <title>
- Jan. 24, 1994: Mother-And-Child Reunion
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- <history>
- TIME--The Weekly Newsmagazine--1994
- Jan. 24, 1994 Ice Follies
- </history>
- <article>
- <source>Time Magazine</source>
- <hdr>
- SOCIETY, Page 58
- Mother-And-Child Reunion
- </hdr>
- <body>
- <p>Big-city hospitals have developed inventive programs to solve
- the tragedy of abandoned babies
- </p>
- <p>By David Van Biema--Reported by Ann Blackman/Washington
- </p>
- <p> Infant T, Infant M and Infant D occupy identical cribs in a
- small, drab ward on the second floor of Washington's District
- of Columbia General Hospital. A Fisher-Price mobile dangles
- above each bed. No one ever visits them. They have never been
- outdoors.
- </p>
- <p> The babies were born in October, November and December. They
- have long since outgrown the maternity ward. They are healthy.
- In fact, there is no reason why any of them should not be home
- now--no reason except that they have no homes. Their mothers
- left in a hurry weeks ago, providing only phony addresses and
- phone numbers before slipping back to cocaine habits and homelessness.
- Among the other things they neglected to leave behind for their
- children were names.
- </p>
- <p> Abandoned babies were far less painful to contemplate before
- the crack and AIDS epidemics, back when they came swaddled in
- baskets with heartbreaking notes, in the thousands rather than
- in the tens of thousands. Now they are a shared social nightmare,
- the blame for which may depend on the political philosophy of
- the beholder. Conservatives might find it hard to imagine a
- purer shirking of personal responsibility than the mother who
- throws her child, at birth, upon the charity of the state; liberals
- may decry the forces that drive poor, addicted and HIV-positive
- women into this most wrenching and demeaning admission of failure.
- </p>
- <p> Last November the Department of Health and Human Services, in
- its first such tally, reported that 22,000 "boarder babies"
- were deserted in 851 hospitals in 1991. Three-quarters of the
- infants tested positive for drugs at birth. They had no relatives,
- only nurses; no world beyond the ward. Some stayed in the hospitals
- so long they learned to walk there. Most were doomed to an early
- entry into America's brutal foster-care system, and in the meantime
- each baby's maintenance cost up to $1,500 a day.
- </p>
- <p> But since 1991, at D.C. General and other institutions around
- the country, another story is emerging. The three infants with
- their mobiles, pitiful as they are, represent a sharp decrease
- from two years ago, when the daily census of abandoned babies
- ran as high as 25. "We used to have them in four or five rooms,"
- says D.C. General's communications director, Linda Ivey, proudly.
- "Now there's only one nursery." New York City's Harlem Hospital
- Center reports that its daily count has plunged from 20 to three.
- At Grady Memorial in Atlanta, the annual total of boarder children
- fell from 52 in 1990 to 22 last year. The improvements reflect
- a courageous willingness to identify--and tackle--root causes.
- All three hospitals practice early intervention, targeting problem
- mothers during pregnancy. Each addresses not only motherhood
- but also the addictions and other tribulations that can make
- motherhood seem unendurable.
- </p>
- <p> Grady Memorial's Project Prevent, funded by a $450,000 federal
- grant, is perhaps the most aggressive program, cooperating with
- Atlanta's police and homeless shelters to recruit pregnant drug
- abusers. Each woman receives personal attention from project
- adviser-advocates. The program also pays for transportation
- and other child-care costs until the birth. Chicago's Haymarket
- House even houses its clients during pregnancy and provides
- follow-up services for as long as three years. Says director
- Wanda Thomaston of her clients: "It's often their first sober
- pregnancy. They've never felt their babies move or experienced
- labor pains."
- </p>
- <p> But it is D.C. General's Maternal and Child Health Project that
- does the most with the least. Combining a $110,000 grant from
- the Washington Junior League with other donations, the hospital
- runs a 10-week support program for patients drawn from its prenatal
- and drug-abuse wards. The women, many of them homeless, gather
- weekly for lectures. Each receives a healthy meal and two gifts,
- one for herself and another for her infant: a blanket, baby
- clothes, a car seat. "By the time the child is born," says Ivey,
- "they've assembled a small layette." Volunteer "godparents"
- help keep their proteges off drugs and attending their doctors'
- appointments.
- </p>
- <p> The idea that such a modest curriculum would actually untangle
- the web of misfortune and bad habits leading to abandonment
- might seem implausible were it not for the program's success
- rate. Of 200 women who have attended since the Washington program's
- inception, not one has abandoned her child. As Angela Holland
- testifies, "They taught me how to get my life back together
- again."
- </p>
- <p> Holland began doing drugs in 1982, at age 17, when her first
- child, Tracee, was a year old. The young mother's life unraveled;
- they found themselves living in an abandoned house with no heat
- and no gas. Holland signed the baby into foster care. Over the
- next eight years, while nurturing an escalating habit, she managed
- to have two more daughters, Rickiyah and Cade. She abandoned
- them, leaving them with a friend shortly after her boyfriend
- began dealing and sharing his drugs. "That's when I started
- thinking about killing myself," she says.
- </p>
- <p> Instead she moved back home to Washington and met a cafeteria
- worker named Corey Shackleford. He said he loved her but had
- a nonnegotiable demand: she must get clean. Holland allows herself
- a small smile. "He'd led a sheltered life," she says. Nonetheless,
- that November, four months pregnant, she presented herself at
- D.C. General. "I told them I was a heroin and cocaine user,
- and sick and tired of getting high," she says. The hospital
- enrolled her in the maternal-health project.
- </p>
- <p> Over the remainder of her pregnancy, she attended group meetings
- in the hospital's adolescent playroom, sitting in a circle with
- other participants, while dietitians, social workers and even
- an aerobics instructor gave brief presentations and then opened
- the floor to 1 1/2 hours of lively discussion. Recovering addicts
- lectured on staying straight. A midwife running the parenting
- session gave step-by-step instruction on how to dress a child
- in a snowsuit to 30 young women, many of whom had never had
- a snowsuit of their own. "I learned how to feed my children--how to fix a healthy meal and not feed them hot dogs and
- beans all the time," says Holland. "I learned you don't have
- to spank them; you can just talk to them." A woman named Michelle
- Nielsen became her mentor. "I'd take her to the store or to
- a prenatal class," says Nielsen. "We talked a lot about God
- and church."
- </p>
- <p> After a particularly difficult Christmas that year, Holland
- became discouraged. "I started thinking, `What if my family
- doesn't want to be bothered with me?'" She didn't like the
- weight she was gaining without the drugs that kept her thin.
- But she managed to keep faith, and on Valentine's Day she and
- Corey were married. In April she gave birth to a drug-free daughter.
- In June she regained custody of her first three children. Her
- current situation is not all roses. "Sometimes I want to pull
- my hair out," she says. "Housing is really difficult for us.
- But I wouldn't change nothing. I've never felt this kind of
- love before. I have a life ahead of me and four beautiful girls
- who depend on me."
- </p>
- <p> There are those who doubt that the D.C. General program alone
- is sufficient to keep such children out of the foster-care system
- in the long run. One skeptic is Dr. Sidney Jones, the hospital's
- chief of obstetrics and gynecology. "The idea of a three-month
- outpatient program is a joke," he says. "I want money for a
- house where these women can live for a year." Donna Carson,
- founder of the Atlanta program, agrees: "A lot of mothers will
- abandon their babies after they get home because their life
- isn't working. They need long-term support."
- </p>
- <p> Given the fiscal and social costs of institutionalizing an underclass
- from cradle to grave, it may be worth calculating the cost of
- such support. For now, however, there is a symbolic triumph
- in preventing children from being written off the moment their
- umbilical cords are cut. And something more than symbolism is
- occurring in Holland's apartment in Washington's dangerous Northeast
- neighborhood. A crib stands by the front door; its tenant is
- holding out her little arms and smiling widely, eyes as big
- as chestnuts. Holland scoops her up. "I love being a mother
- now," she says. In her mother's arms, Courtney Rosia-Lee Holland
- laughs delightedly.
- </p>
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